Fiestas & Siestas – The Cultural Do’s & Don’ts Of Spain
The Spanish may have a reputation for their leisurely, laid-back lifestyle, but when it comes to etiquette, cultural awareness and following a few codes of conduct when visiting Spain and Spanish-speaking countries will go a long way with the locals! Try these top tips from Angela West.
A happy bunch, the music, dance and food-loving Spanish make a point of enjoying life to the full. From fiery, foot-stomping flamenco and regional fiestas, such as the perilous running of the bulls in Pamplona, to week-long national celebrations of religious events, boasting a fun and friendly family atmosphere, there always seems to be an excuse for a party!
Life in Spain has recently taken a turn from conservative, religious customs, giving way to more modern ways. Many ancient and religious customs, manners and traditions live on, however, and hospitality, chivalry and courtesy remain important factors in the Spanish way of life, creating an ideal mix of contemporary and traditional living.
Greetings
When addressing someone, use Señor or Señora as you would Mr or Mrs. Spanish people have two surnames, composed of their father’s first surname and their mother’s first surname – in conversation, only the first should be used. Great conversationalists, this is how the Spanish like to spend their free time and with no culture of political correctness in Spain, few subjects are taboo. Score brownie points by asking them about their family and children, or football, the national sport, although it’s best not to bring up any aversion to bullfights!
It’s common courtesy to greet people with a ‘hola’ on entering a shop, restaurant or hotel. Impress with a ‘hasta luego’ as you leave. Be aware that many businesses close after lunch, reopening in the early evening.
Handshaking is the customary form of greeting formerly and the beso, kissing on both cheeks is normal, even among the guys. If unsure when meeting someone for the first time, play it safe with a handshake or reciprocate with kisses if a cheek is offered. Tú, rather than the formal version usted, is commonly used for ‘you’ and eye contact is important.
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